Seriously, how come the guys we want never follow through with any of the plans they make? Why do you say "I really want to see you", or "I really want to be with you", or "I will call you later". Honestly, what is the point in wasting your breath if you don't mean it. It's not like I am standing next you with a gun to your head saying if you don't call me I am going to pull the trigger. I really don't get it. Don't ask for my number if you don't plan on using it. Don't say you want to see me again if you really don't, especially when I really would never see you again so it isn't like it would be awkward seeing you everyday because I wouldn't. Seriously, when you do things like that it does make me wish I had some sort of object that I could really cause some pain with.
In attempts to get over mister douche bag I have tried to move on and get over him, because thats what you do right? get over guys that doesn't call? Isn't that a movie? He's Just not that into you.. (maybe I should watch it again and take some tips.) Anyway, to get over him or at least try to get him out of my brain, I went out with a guy who was a nice guy, and I mean a REALLY nice guy. A guy who called me everyday to tell me good morning and see how my morning was going and called me during the day and then at night to tell me goodnight. A guy who I am sure would have continued to do that had I let things go on. I couldn't get over this douche bag. I kept thinking of him in the back of my mind and wishing it was him that I was on the phone with, or him that I was out to dinner with. Wondering what it would be like to be out with him instead of this nice guy. So needless to say I had to let the nice guy go. I couldn't do it. I couldn't pretend to have feelings for someone that I don't just to try to get over a guy, it's not fair to the nice guy. So now the nice guy barely even talks to me, I don't think he even knows that I exist anymore. Still yet I have no feelings for him.
Today, a guy that I have had my eye on for about 4 months now FINALLY asked me for my number. After days, weeks, months of hearing how beautiful he thinks I am and how I should have a boyfriend seriously 5 months of knowing him and hearing this and he FINALLY ask me for my number and says, "I will call you later today." Well does he? Of course not. I know its guy code and of course he isn't going to call when he actually says he will, but come on even douche bag called the two days that he said he was going to call.
I am going crazy here. Why can't I just find a good guy that I am actually interested in and have feelings for? Or why can't one of these douche bag guys just step up to the plate and actually follow through with what they say they are going to do. Is it really that hard? NO its really not... I can do it and clearly other guys can so what is their issue that they can't pick of the phone for just a 2 minute phone conversation? So seriously annoying...
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Frustrating! That is definitely one of my pet peeves - but not only with guys, with friends too. I hate when people say "let's get together!" and then never take the initiative to call and plan it. Why say it in the first place? Arrrggghhh! I hear ya!
ReplyDeleteYeah seriously. I can't stand it. Or when people will be texting you and then after like two text messages stop texting you. Its annoying. Don't start something if you can't finish it.
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